Between Friends (Part II)

Always try to help a friend in need
Believe in yourself
Be brave... but it's ok to be afraid
Sometimes study hard, give lots of kisses
Laugh often
Don't be overly concerned with your weigh, it's just a number

Always try to see the glass half full
Meet new people, even if they look different to you
Remain calm, even when it seems hopeless
Take lots of naps...
Be weird whenever you have the chance
Love your friends, no matter who they are
Don't waste food, Relax;
Take an occasional risk
Try to have a little fun each day... it's important
Work together as a team, share a joke with friends,
Fall in love with someone... and say "I Love You" often
Express yourself creatively
Be conscious of your appearance

Always be up for surprises
Love someone with all your heart
Share with friends
Watch your step
It will get better
There is always someone who loves you more than you know
Exercise to keep fit
Live up to your name
Seize the moment
Hold on to good friends; they are few and far between
Indulge in the things you truly love
Cherish every Sunday
(What a week this has been...)
At the end of the day... PRAY
...... and Close your eyes
And smile at least once a day!

A journey of thousand miles begins with a single step......
Be in Touch Always

遗忘坦然

遗忘，真的能遗忘吗？
放弃，真的能放弃吗？
坦然，真的有那么难吗？
是你不能面对现实，还是不能遗忘。。。
难道坦然面对有真的那么困难

分寸学

• 说话的分寸

急事，慢慢说； 大事，清楚说； 小事，幽默说。

没把握的事，慎重说； 没发生的事，不要胡说；

做不到的事，别乱说。 伤害人的事，不能说；

讨厌的事，对事不对人地说。

开心的事，看场合说； 伤心的事，不要见人就说；

别人的事，小心说； 自己的事，听听心地怎么说。

现在的事，做了再说； 未来的事，未来再说。

这么几句话，句句说到重点。有些人经常口不择言，又有些人口无遮拦；有些人说话含糊不清，还有些人什么也不说，吞进肚子里。 说话实在是一门不容易的艺术，要说得清楚，要留点口德，还要说出内涵，这些都要慢慢修炼。

• 做人的分寸

才能不必傲尽，留一些内涵给自己；

有功不必邀尽，留一些谦让给自己；

有理不必抢尽，留一些宽容给自己；

富贵不必享尽，留一些福泽给自己；

得宠不必恃尽，留一些后路给自己；

责人不必苛尽，留一些度量给自己。

这些文字可能比较不容易理解，基本上是说做人做事，不要做得太尽太绝，努力表现是好的，但是要给别人一些余地。比如说：“富贵不必享尽，留一些福泽给自己”，意思就是说不要过分追求富贵、奢华的生活，把自己的富贵和财富给一点给别人，你会换得多一点幸福和快乐。 总而言之，留余地给别人，其实也是在给自己留一条后路。

**《小男人周记》 --- 郑丹瑞的文章。